Category Archives: Family

Posts about my family.

Christmas with my kids, parents and one of my brothers


For the last few years I’ve visited my girls the week before Christmas to spend the weekend and have our own special Christmas. It also coincides with my Mum’s birthday so it’s a joint celebration.

This year my youngest brother, Mr40 decided to make wonton soup for an entrée. Mr40 prides himself on this wonton soup however, we discovered he doesn’t follow Mum’s recipe to the letter. He doesn’t slap the pork mince. For more information check out My Mum’s wonton recipe and read what I’m talking about.

Mr40's wonton soup for our Christmas lunch entrée

It was pretty good.

If you thought I limited myself to this one small bowl you'd be mistaken.

Lunch was pretty good. In the morning I went out and bought prawns (tigers and kings) and then peeled them. Mum roasted chickens, made a potato bake, coleslaw, devilled eggs and a fantastic stuffing.

Christmas lunch

For dessert Mum made a sunken orange cake with a lovely orange sauce and ice cream.

Orange cake

You would think we couldn’t eat dinner. Well you’d be wrong.

A light dinner of cheese and fruit

This was then followed with rocky road made by Mr40′s wife.

Rocky road

After digesting dinner we slept and then woke this morning to Mum breakfast of French toast, bacon and scrambled eggs.

Breakast after a big feast. French toast, bacon and scrambled eggs.

Kids, sport and injuries


If you follow me on Twitter you’ll know that I’ve taken a few days off work to attend the 2011 Women’s Artistic Gymnastics National Club Championships at the Australian Institute of Sport Arena in Canberra this week. It’s the last time they’ll be be managed by ACT Gymnastics. Gymnastics Australia will manage them from next year. However, it seems they may keep on being staged in Canberra.

I’ve been tweeting the hash tags #WAGNatClubChampionships and #DeltaBrisbane I am pretty confident every entry will belong to me :-)

Two of my daughters are avid gymnasts. They previously trained at AIS and now are with Delta Gymnastics in Brisbane. Both have won performance (academic and sport) scholarships to a GPS school in Brisbane. They have talent. More importantly they love gymnastics. They love life.

Miss10 could not come to Canberra as part of the WAGL5 team. She has an elbow injury. She should be in the team and I know she’ll be disappointed. I would have loved for her to be here, she is such a delightful child. She is always smiling and encouraging others.

Miss14 is here as part of the Delta Brisbane WAGL8 team. She’s carried a number of injuries over a long period of time, she’s broken an elbow (avulsed medial epicondyle), she has bad knees and ankles and a strained back. Prior to this competition she strained her back again. Her mental toughness and determination is remarkable. I know she is in pain, yet during her routines she continues to smile and encourage others. After she’s finished an apparatus she reaches for her back and then lays down with a tennis ball under the sore area to massage it. I’ve seen her coach and the resident competition physiotherapist treat her after each apparatus to help her get to the next routine. As a parent, I sit in the stands and think about what she’s going through. I wonder if I should wander down and try to do something. I realise then that is more about me and my feelings rather than what is good for Miss14. She loves gymnastics. She has scars, they are her badges of honour. She is so strong. I love and worry about her mental toughness and determination. My mother says she reminds her of me as a kid. She says this in a positive way so I take it that way and hope Miss14 can apply the same level of determination to everything she does. Academically she’s bright, she excels at other sports, she knows what she wants. I only hope for her happiness. She tells me she wants to study physiotherapy and university. Miss10 on the other hand wants to be a surgeon.

In the end Miss14′s team came third overall. In previous years in previous teams they have come first. I ask if she’s happy. She beams and says yes. She knows her sore back has limited her. She understands, a place is a very good result. I am proud of her. I am proud of all three daughters.

Miss10′s team won all their events and won gold overall. They were a dominant force in that level. A Delta Force ha ha… I am sad that Miss10 could not be part of it. I wish she was here.

Delta Brisbane won Champion Club. This is well deserved. They are a fantastic club. Head coach and director, John Mitchell has a great philosophy to coaching.

I tend not to publish images of my daughters. I’m cautious about doing that. I will post some partial images and a couple of videos of the team cheering on their mates.

I’ve posted the videos to YouTube. I like the entrances when the gymnasts march on. They always looks so smart. If you look at the video on the entrance for the final presentation you’ll get a sense of the number of gymnasts who entered. Many of them had already left for their homes because it’s still school time. These are the top four or five gymnasts in each level from many of the clubs in Australia able to afford to send a team.

If you live in Brisbane and if your kids want to do gymnastics I highly recommend Delta Gymnastics. The coaches are wonderful. They have a fabulous outlook on life. They treat their charges well. They understand balance.

If you live in Darwin I recommend Gymnastics Metropolis. This is where Miss10 and Miss14 got their start.

Miss14 arriving Happiness

Miss14 and her medals

Miss14 departing Sadness

Cheering YouTube video

More cheering YouTube video

Entrance to the final presentation YouTube video

Presentation the to champion club YouTube video

I’ve never seen myself swim


So today I asked Miss14 to capture it on video.

It is so odd to look at myself swim.

Mum is making coconut chicken


Mum is doing her magic

Shout out. A request from my Mum.


While in Brisbane last weekend (check out http://garydavidlum.com/2011/09/05/my-fathers-day-weekend/) Mum asked if I’d seen her favourite dry cleaning liquid in any shops in Canberra.

Her “My Favourite” DRY CLEANER looks like it’s locally made in Brisbane in Stafford and contains 91% liquid hydrocarbon.

My Favourite DRY CLEANER

I expect this product is now illegal and no longer for sale, but in case it isn’t and it can still be purchased, I’d appreciate advice on where to get it. Thank you.

 

My fathers day weekend


This weekend past had been much anticipated. I was heading to Brisbane to see my daughters and parents. Given it was fathers day was also a bonus in terms of seeing my father.

The flight to Brisbane on Friday evening was particularly uncomfortable. My original flight had been cancelled and I was put on another flight with a different number although it left at the same time as the original booking. I didn’t question it, I was just happy to be flying to Brisbane. I should have realised however, that a cancelled flight would mean a very full cabin. I always like to board early so I can ensure my carry on bag gets a place in the overhead locker. As the last passengers were boarding, the passenger who would be next to me got on board. He was huge. He was at least 200 cm and an axe handle wide at the shoulders. I assume he was a footballer. He also had a garment bag and a large duffel. He could not find a space in any of the overhead lockers. In the end he stuffed the duffel under the seat in front of him and had the garment bag between his knees. This meant he flowed into my space and I had his knee pushing me into the aisle. Fortunately the flight is just under two hours. It could have been worse, he could have been morbidly obese or smelt bad.

Seeing the girls when I arrived was great. They are always so lively and happy, especially if they’ve just been to gymnastics training.

Saturday was a huge day. We were up early (0530 AEST) so Miss14 could do Miss10′s hair for her competition. Breakfast was jam on toast and instant coffee.

Jam on toast

Fortunately Miss14 just had training and no competition that day. We drove from Chermside West to Manly West (45 minutes) and dropped off Miss 10. We then drove to Ascot (35 Minutes) to drop off Miss14 to training before 0800 AEST. Miss16 and I then went back to Manly West to watch some of Miss10′s competition (another 35 minutes). It was a team event and it was a combination level 5/6. Miss10 is level 5 under under which means she is two years below the average age of the usual level 5 gymnast. Her club is the best in Queensland (based on competition results over many years) so she was in the white team while the more advanced girls were in the blue team. Even so, she and her white team mates did very well when compared to the other clubs present. She is such a talented athlete.

We had to leave early so Miss16 could make her hockey grand final. She started playing again this year after a few years off. She is in the Junior first division and her team had come runner up in competition. They were playing the minor premiers. The game was a nil all draw and according to the rules, both clubs shared the premiership. I was so proud of Miss16. It is great to watch her play sport. I wish she had continued swimming, she has a lovely body for swimming, long legs and powerful shoulders. Her butterfly stroke was beautiful.

I had dropped off Miss16 to pick up Miss14 so we could watch the game together. Hockey was being played at Downey Park in Windsor (30 minutes). A pleasant surprise was Mr40 and his kids coming along. Mr40 is my youngest brother. He became Mr40 last week so it was good to see him close to the big birthday.

After the medal presentations we drove back to Manly West and caught up with Miss10.

Hockey premiership medal for Miss16

She had a fall on the balance beam and had a blinder on the floor with a very high score. She seemed happy with her performance. We had to wait until 1520 AEST for the presentations which were very orderly.

One of the big things we were meant to do on the weekend is attend Riverfire 2011. This is an annual event in Brisbane and it had best been known for the F1-11 Aardvark (pigs) dump and burn. The RAAF F1-11s were retired last year. This year F/A18 super hornets (rhinos) flew in the afternoon. As we were driving back to Chermside West to get ready, we saw the F/A18s doing their thing in the air above Brisbane.

After a quick shower and change we drove to Alderley train station for the quick trip to South Bank. Riverfire is also known for the fireworks display which occurs over the stretch of the Brisbane River in front of South Bank.

I used my iPhone to capture a few short videos which I’ve uploaded to my Flickr Photostream http://www.flickr.com/photos/garylum/

The fire works were fantastic. We had a great vantage point. The fire works finished around 1945 AEST and then we went and had Subway for dinner.

We walked across the Brisbane River and headed to Central Station for a McDonalds snack of fries and a thick shake.

The trip home was largely uneventful except for some teenagers who were very drunk. Their behaviour wasn’t outrageous, they were inebriated and unable to make good decisions. One of the young girls needed to relieve herself and we were all hoping she wouldn’t do it on the train. She kept getting up at stops and telling her friends she needed the toilet.

On Sunday I woke to fathers day greetings and also wished my own father a happy day. In the preceding week Miss16 had asked what movies I’d seen this year which had been released on DVD. I had no idea what she was on about until I opened the present. I received #FastFurious5 plus chips and Peanut M&Ms which are my favourites.

Fathers day gifts

As a treat my mother and my daughters cooked us a really nice breakfast of bacon, eggs, mushrooms, tomatoes and pancakes.

Fathers day breakfast

We had a nice relaxing morning before I had to head to the airport.

Last night as I arrived home I started feeling unwell. Cephalgia, rhinorrhoea and pharyngitis. I have Manflu and stayed home from work today.

Celebrating baby brother’s 40th birthday


It’s my youngest brother’s birthday today. He turns 40. He’s celebrating by attending the Bledisloe game tonight in Brisbane. I’ll see him next week when I visit. Tonight I cooked some chicken thigh flesh (sans skin) lightly dusted with flour and salt and pepper.

It looks a little pink at one end but when rested and cut through there was no sign of rawness.

Chicken thigh

Chicken thigh

Chicken 180 g, broccoli 30 g, cauliflower 70 g and peas 45 g.

 

I am so proud of Miss14


Miss14 competed in the 2011 National Championships for Gymnastics. Miss14 recently moved up to Level 8. After two days of competition, she came fifth overall and third on uneven bars. With a pulled hamstring, bad knees and back she has an amazing mental toughness to fight through pain. I am so proud.

Almost as good is that QUEENSLAND won WAG L8 too. What a great week for Queensland.